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They say if you love something you set it free..

Letting someone go that you love is the hardest thing in the world and I know this personally. Why do we do this if in the end we are just sad...
Why do we even make that a choice?
And what do you do after...? How do you cope?

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Permalink Reply by SHARKiE on March 9, 2010 at 10:54pm: u want the other person to be happy...i mean that is why i would let them go. we make the choice cuz maybe they do not love u as much as u love them idk ugh!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Becky on March 10, 2010 at 4:04pm: i agree to that; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by bRiT *JeNs BaBy* on March 10, 2010 at 5:48am: we do it cause their worth it...
their worth our blood our pain our tears....
when you truely love someone... you'll go through anything to keep them in your life....
you'll cry listening to them tell you how happy and right they are with their new gf...
they'll tell you everything they can to try to break you... but you cant show them that your broken...
we make the choice because we truely love them... because we want them happy
and we'd do anything to make them happy... even if its not with us...
when people say give it time it will all work out... its true
just like you dont know what you got till its gone
dont shut yourself out from the world there is someone out there who's slowly coming to you...
the more you search the farther they get.
you cope by writing it works for me... just write blogs write poems write stories...
dont be scared to cry...let what your feeling out...
your saddness is going to turn into anger if you dont let it all out...
trust me... i know ... i really do; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Nikki on March 10, 2010 at 9:38pm: Thanks...I guess all this makes sense. I don't even really know what to say about this anymore. But thanks.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Seras Victoria on March 10, 2010 at 9:39pm: I agree with therest you set them free because if you truely love someone their happiness is your happiness...

Being sad is only normal... loving someone and then parting from that person by setting it free is like giving yourself a hard run into reality.... just like every wound it needs time to heal from it. We can get wounds mentally... but every human will eventually heal from that aswell. The times for that healing process depends on how you are as a person and how you deal with it and take care of yourself first prio.

In the end letting someone go who cannot give you what you want is the best thing you can do. Because you will eventually heal from it and move on with your life and learn so that you can oneday receive what you want from someone that CAN offer you it. Its a waste of time to cling onto something that isnt there.

In a way we always have to let someone free. Your with someone because you love them and choose to lead that life with someone. If someone isnt ready yet or not sure you cant force them to give you what they want infact forcing will only make you push people away.. so letting someone free will give you the best result in the end.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Victoria on March 11, 2010 at 4:42am: Doesnt it also hurt you that the other person ur with is not happy being by your side?????? Maybe they love someone else or they love u but the relationship isnt at its best. Hurting both of u? Yea it sucks letting go of someone you care for sooo much!!! But dont you ever stop and think thats theres someone out there for you whos goin to love you, understand you, and cares just as much as you do for them? Yea you wont find this person right away but there is someone for you out in this world!!! And if you are truly meant to be with this person then destiny will bring you two back yogether!!! Let it be love will come!! Set it free!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Nikki on March 11, 2010 at 3:54pm: I don't have this problem right now personally. I have someone who I love very much and who loves me very much...I was just wondering, because someone said that to me today. But you're all very right..; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Micky five coats CLB on March 23, 2010 at 7:53am: you tell yourself you'll be happy as long as they're happy, that's about as simple as it gets I guess.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by RD on March 23, 2010 at 1:17pm: I am just going thru this idk how to deal w it it is really hard and sad diff situation i think; ▶ Reply to This